Well the situation from Monday seems to have resolved itself - online at least. By accident or design I don't know, and maybe I never will but I am happier today as a result. 😀 I don't like drama and tension - I get enough of that at work - office politics even though I don't work in an office!
I think someone thought I was angry at them, but I wasn't. Sad, yes. Disappointed, yes. But never angry with them.
I'd never had to deal with anyone with ADHD before and really didn't understand how it can affect people. Some people have very complex personalities - which can make it hard to understand why they act like they do. It was hard - very hard, but by the time I eventually started to understand this it was too late and the damage to our friendship was already done. 😔
I think someone has been going through a difficult time recently so I tried to send out warm positive vibes on Thursday afternoon - I hope they might have radiated through. 🌞
I wasn't angry back then, and I'm not now.
I pick my friends very carefully - quality not quantity. I am fussy about who I hang about with and keep clear of those who seem to attract drama or trouble. Keeping those people out of my life keeps drama and trouble out of my own life too - both online and in that thing called real life. So I value my friends highly, and when something like this happens and I lose one (which is very rare) it really shakes me up and I find it hard to deal with as I'm really not used to dealing with stuff like this.
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